Saturday, February 5, 2011

Guess what? We're going to do this!!

We finally talked! Devon even set up the date, told me that she wanted to talk this through... so we did...

I'm flying a little high right now, but I wanted to get this out of my body, to someone other than Devon: She wants to go through with this... she wants for us to have a baby! She talked through some of her fears - both before the conversation and during it - and she realized that all of the excuses she was telling herself (age, money, etc.) were just that: excuses.

I went in not knowing what to expect, and considering what happened last time, I had every single metaphorical piece of armor I own put on before talking. I was ready to take a blow. I was wondering how in the hell I would put this away... but I don't have to!

Devon opened up with something like, "I know you have an appointment with your doctor on Thursday; when you're there, I want you to ask what the first step is to get us on this road of TTC." And YES - she even used the phrase TTC... after reading my blog, she's almost up on the lingo ;-)

We haven't gone into too much detail yet. We tossed around a few names if we go the way of a KD. I was really adamant about wanting to stay active with the TTC journey... not letting it dissipate after all of our talking. 

She agreed.

Whaaaaaaaat?? We're going to get ourselves a baby!?!?!

Thursday: Bring it on!

9 comments:

  1. YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    That is some great news and I bet you are just BEAMING. Congrats to you guys!!!! May your journey be beautiful! :)

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  2. Congratulations ladies! I'm so excited for both of you!

    (hugs)

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  3. So excited for the both of you!!!!

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  4. Oh, I'm so happy to hear this! I know you were gearing up to put this dream behind you, but I'm so, so happy that your patience in letting Devon have her space has paid off in this way! Good luck at the dr!

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  5. Yay, yay, yay! This is wonderful and I'm excited for you. It's great to 'hear' you so happy! Good luck today!

    Oh, I love a happy resolution!

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